SOUL RELATIONSHIP:

A common question I find myself pondering is “Do soulmates exist?” I have asked almost every single person in my life and they always give me a different response.
However, not a single person has answered my question “do you believe in soulmates?” with the response “no.” I’ve received so many different answers.

When I asked my dad, he told me the story of how he met my mom. After coming back from the army: the person he thought he was going to marry cheated on him and threw out all of his stuff. He had no clothes or anything and was very upset. His friends talked him into going to a quinceañera and gave him clothes to wear for that night. That’s when he met my mom, apparently they were orbiting each other's lives for years. They knew each other's friends and family but not each other until that moment. My dad just says "it’s something he can’t really explain but since that day they have been together for 33 years." So his answer is of course something along the lines of yes.

I asked my brother and he told me the story of his girlfriend and how they came to be. He was manifesting a partner and she became single after getting out of a long term relationship. They had already known eachother for a long time but her parents actually was the one who set up the date for them. So for him, his answer was something more like “you choose to make your soulmate connection work.”

As for my friends, they would either mention their partners or their friends that they knew were soulmates for them. And talk about how things just aligned for it to work out. I remember when me and my friend went to get a tarot reading with a professional reader and she told my friend that his soulmate was already in his life: it just hasn’t clicked yet.
She was! She just wasn’t a main part of the group at the time even though we would sometimes hand out with her and now they are together.

I have met alot of people that I would surely claim to be my soulmate: people I was destined to meet. Romantically, I have met karmic partners, I have met a soulmate even though it didn’t work out, but not “the one.” Atleast, not yet. It’s one of those things where I believe in it but also I doubt it at the same time…

I have had readers tell me somethings but they never really go in depth compared to other people like... I remember I did a reading about my career and it was suppose to be primarily on that but the woman when she was reading about me doing social media - She said that I would find my soulmate in that world and he would be more successful than me. But, he would help me grow my empire together or whatever. At the time, I was dating my ex so I completely brushed her off and asked if it was my current partner and she said no. Which was a shock because I genuinely thought at the time that I would've been with my ex til death. So she predicted our breakup accidentally through a career reading LOL? Still haven't met the guy though so all I can do is shrug until I do, I guess. ANYWAYS

LETS TALK ABOUT EACH KIND OF SOUL RELATIONSHIP- WHY NOT?

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Soul Family/Group

RAH. The soul family or group is a group of souls that “travel together” in different life times (if you believe in past lives.) They can be friends, family members, teachers, ect. People you meet that help teach you different lessons rather it’s a short time or a long time. There can be different forms of them through your life time that come and go. Often just passing through the time. These connections aren't truly karmic but more so a little bit of a hierophant's left over speech. The connection does not have to be strong like it could just be an old man on the side of the street telling you "it's the small things" but if that message sits with your soul than you know you just ran into a soul family member!

Karmics

this fucking sucks. Karmics are people USUALLY LOVERS (some people will argue that this is because love brings out the real wounds but I think a karmic can also be a friend, a boss, or soemone who has a HUGE impact on your life- love is not always romantic but yk keep reading) that are toxic but not because they are bad people, rather it's because they bring out the worst in you. This is someone who will come into your life and act like a mirror. If you aren't healed while neither will they be and it will turn into a huge tower explosion that's hard to look away from. Easiest explanation is when you have a really cool/hot friend but she keeps dating really REALLY shitty men and she claims "she doesn't understand why she's dealing with this." Well because it's a karmic bond or an easier more digestable word "trauma bond." What is a trauma bond? It is essentially when you both are so traumatized that you NEED eachother's validiton to continue the cycle - highs and lows - but not a normal relationship highs and lows. Toxic, cheating, screaming, whatever else kind of cycles. When it's good than it's really good but when it's bad than its really bad EXCEPT ITS ALWAYS BAD AND YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO PATCH UP THE WOUNDS. Anyways, these people will come in and flip your world around than disappear once the answer/lesson has been learned. It's an unfortunate connection- can't lie.

Twinflames

this one is worse than the other one. People swear that their toxic situationship from 2006 is their twin flame and let's be real... girl he ain't. There is alot of bullshit when it comes to this one so let me explain. A twin flame is essentially another part of yourself in human form that was seperated and now you both are mirrors for one another. Similar to soulmates but the difference is that it's a part of your soul. Usually one is a runner and one is a chaser. I won't lie, you can move on from your twinflame and find a soulmate or a divine partner and live life happily. Or you can return to your twin flame and finally cut the shit after a long seperation but honestly, I hope you dont fall into that category because I heard that its not but pain. Sure they are a MIRROR of your soul and bring out that part of you that you need to heal but sometimes, its not a twin flame - sometimes its just a really intense yearning because someone growing up made you feel unloved and now your chasing validation like a karmic. It's pretty rare to find your twin flame and most people dont even experience it so if it's not you... thank the lord. These people have a subreddit dedicated to this shit and some post are genuine... while others are just desperate people idolizing their connection with their exs.

Soulmates

this is a popular one huh? Soulmates are cool. It similar to a soul family but they are much more closer. Usually will appear at a low point in your life and help your soul heal from stuff. Not always romantic either, they can very much be platonic. They speak to the soul. Most people end up with their soulmates and its usually easier/more complimentary than ending up with a karmic (some people do) Soulmates will still challenge you but it's not as intense SOMETIMES but yea soulmates are nice. Their can be many different types but if you meet one, youll know it.

Divine Partners

this is rare. A divine partner ONLY happens when both people are HEALED and have learned all the lessons from their karmics. These two would easily be the emperor and empress archetype from the tarot but it's EXTREMELY RARE. Think of the Divine Partner as "the one" like extremely compliment. It's almost insane how compatible you will be with this person but NOT everyone reaches this- most people settle with karmics or soulmates. Achieving a Divine Partner is tricker and takes ALOT of work. The best way to explain them is as equal counterparts. Yin and Yang. Hard to achieve, easy rolling once together.

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SOUL RELATIONSHIP:

Soul Family/Group

Karmics

Twinflames

Soulmates

Divine Partners